My mil and I don't get along and I had a really ruff year I had a car accident in august and the guy that hit my car did a lot of damage and I don't go back to work until later this month the best thing that came out of this year was my son. She takes every opportunity to criticize and put me down about it she does it while on the phone to her son and thinks I can't hear it says a lot about a person that kicks you while your down but I had to remember she goes home to just her cats every night and always will