So it's long story but I'm going to try and cut it short. Ex husband, married to him for ten years. He had an affair at the end, with my friend's (guy best friend) lady. They worked together, and I caught him. Needless to say after about two months, we tried working it out. He got new job 3.5 hours away in Santa Cruz. He moved, soon after he got there he talked me into moving and actually had one of his bosses call and offer me job there since we both worked for same company. He talked me into it, so I moved there for him and course moved back in with him. Only couple months later at most, to find him having an another affair while I was six months pregnant. I left n came back to my hometown. He is still with this girl today (2 years later).

I raised our daughter. By myself with zero help from him for first year. He would come maybe once a month and see his daughter because he was too involved with his new girlfriend.

But then him and I worked things , I put the bullshit aside for our daughter. He started coming every week to see her and helped a tiny bit financially. Now he does lot more for her and I've even allowed him to take her over nights now. Which was hardest thing for me to do because I didn't want his girlfriend around my kid. But course she is.

Anyways, I never dated once since I left that night. Worked on myself and raising my daughter. Well I've finally found man of my dreams, and treats me amazing along with my daughter. Course ex husband had problem with me dating, and course when it got serious. He has no right but I get it's hard to see someone u were married to for all those years with someone else and that now has someone around ur kid. I understand that. But my boyfriend, honestly is amazing to the both of us. My daughter loves him. We been together now for so. Months and I think it's time they both met.

Course my bf doesn't like my ex husband because of everything he did. But he respects how he has stepped up as a dad. My ex husband doesnt like fact I'm with someone else. But respects him as how he treats me and my daughter.

Am I crazy for wanting them to meet? My ex husband wants to meet him too. Any suggestions on how I should go about this?? I know they will both be respectful. But, still. Its like eggshells.

And I wanna find a way to tell my ex husband we r going to move in together soon, of course with my daughter too since I have full custody. Any suggestions on how I should do that?

We r still going through court, so I worry. He's agreed to not fight me on full custody, and I gave him half legal custody. I just don't want anything else to change and him fight me for more. So suggestions would help.