My boyfriend doesn’t want sex

Sinclair • 👶🏽👼🏽

So I recently moved into another city to live with my boyfriend of 5 years. I do all the cooking, cleaning, and make sure I please him everyday. I brought it to his attention that he don’t touch me no more in a way that they jokes but also true and he knows but laugh about it. Sometimes he don’t even want me to touch him which be odd. He works third shift so he sleeps during the day while I sleep at night but when he’s off he does the same. I told him that I be lonely sleeping at night by myself when I don’t have to since he is here. He also don’t take me anywhere so I’m stuck in this house. Because I do everything right and make sure he’s happy he says I deserve it but yet nothing. Thankfully I start work soon so I’ll have other people to talk to while my boyfriend wants to be distant. I’m not a cheater but I am capable of it. I love him but a girl have needs too. Why am I here doing everything for you and don’t get nothing in return? Why am I making sure your happy if you don’t make sure I am. He gets upset that he sees something wrong and I lie and say I’m fine. Well that’s because I’ve said many thing plenty of times and he still haven’t done anything and it’s been a month since I was here. Last time we had sexual was a week ago maybe more than that and only lasted for a minute. So he doesn’t want to have sex and don’t touch me. He doesn’t want to sleep with me at night. And he doesn’t take me anywhere to explore stuff together because me and him is both new to the city. It’s just really annoying how not happy I am. I don’t know what to do.