My boyfriend and I have sex very rarely. Probably like once every two weeks, which is not a lot for me. I feel like I have a healthy sex drive and I would like to do it more often.

When we do have sex, it’s not really that great either. There’s usually not enough foreplay to get me going and when there is, it usually fizzles out pretty quickly. Usually I end up going to sleep without having an orgasm.

I’ve tried talking to him about both of these issues I have, but it doesn’t seem to be getting through to him!

What should I do!?!