I am starting to resent my husband. We started off as best friends and the relationship grew into something more. We can't live without each other but lately, I have been starting to resent him. I am a very independent woman, I always have been and don't like to always be told what to do or given a curfew.

Since we got married, he has been slowly changing. He never wants to go out or hang out with anyone. If we get invited over family or friends, he goes out of his way to find an excuse to not attend. I love to hang out with my family and friends and when their spouse joins them I feel awkward going alone. His family doesn't like hanging with others but he was never like this until we got married!!

It rare for him to ever want to go out. Even if it's just me and him he always wants to bring the kids. Can't remember the last time him and I went out on a date. He is constantly working, yes he's working all the time and comes home and just wants to stay home after work. I understand he's tired and doesn't want to go out but one in a while I do want to go out with him 😭 we are also well past due a long family vacation!

Am I overreacting? When I bring it up to his attention and I'm constantly nagging him to join me on a night out with friends he says "it must be your goal to upset me" always turning a fight into my fault.