Pregnant before wedding...abortion?

Hi everyone,

I'm 36 years old. I just found out I'm pregnant, will be 8 weeks at my wedding. I'm considering abortion for the following reasons:

1) my husband to be will be disappointed we won't be able to enjoy our wedding (reception, wedding night) 2) I don't have a job, 3) we live with his parents, 4) I can't afford a new dress 5) we're having a catholic ceremony 6) his parents will be upset 7) my husband to be and I are not physically together as I am in another country for work and feel like we should be together during this time.

While I'd love to try to have kids in a few months I feel the timing is just wrong. Constructive thoughts?

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