My SO and I literally spend no time together. I'm the only one working right now and he stays home with our 2 year old. His day consists of him getting up around 10ish watching tv/movies for a couple hours then playing video games for the rest of the night. And I mean ALLL FUCKING NIGHT. He'll stay up until 2/3 in the morning on his dumb video games unless I say something to him about it. Most of the time he sleeps on the couch because I'm a light sleeper and if he comes into the room around that time I'll get pissed off about him waking me up. I have already talked to him about it several times and he knows how much it annoys my soul. Every time I get home from work (lunch break, etc.) he's always sitting in the same damn spot on the couch. And what is he doing right now? You guessed it: on his xbox. He's been on it for hoursssss already.

So my question is I'm tired of nagging him but can you guys offer me any suggestions on how to get through to him? Also I'm 19 weeks pregnant so maybe my hormones have alot to do with my frustrations.

Please feel free to be brutally honest

Edit: just some additional info. I'm transitioning out of the military and he's in the process of joining which is why he's not working right now. Didn't want to make him seem like a bum. It's just easier for us right now if he stays home with our 2 year old.