Am I at fault?

Okay ladies my bf doesn’t have a license rn. For some reason he still drives. I have helped him to take him to work, court, you name it. But he hates it cause he has to go on my schedule. Anyways but everytime he gets pulled over I’m not able to help him. (Bad timing) but since I can’t he makes it seem like it was my fault? Im on thin ice with his kid.