What do you do?

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What do you do when the love of your life doesn't want babies?

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You make a decision for yourself. What are my options? I can stay and give up the thought of being a mother or I can let go of the relationship and find someone that shares the same interest.

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You have to decide if what he wants is more important than a lifetime of happiness for you if it’s something you had your heart set on. In my observation (my sister is getting a divorce partly because of a similar reason), these things come back to tear people apart later on in the relationship and resentment tends to grow over the years.

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It depends on age too. I'm 21 and with my boyfriend who has said he's not interested in kids and jokingly one time said I should get my tubes tied cause I wouldn't either. But I have a great time with him and I do love him and I'd rather stay and see how the world changes than leave him because I think maybe in the next 10 years id want a kid.

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Ask what you want more, your SO or babies?

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You decide if he's really the love of your life.  If he is you both will have to compromise on some things. If this isn't one of the tings either of you will compromise then it wasn't meant to be. But you have to decide what's more important to you.  For me it's easy I'm not like most girls I don't really have a strong desire to have kids anyway.  But if you do then you have to be true to you.

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