For the past couple of days my SO has been snapping at me over the dumbest shit.

-mad bc I liked an “old” girl friends picture bc she told me that she saw him conversing with a girl at the bar (2 years ago), so he says she’s messy. Honestly, she wouldn’t be a good friend if she didn’t tell me. He threw pillows and slammed the bathroom door... said she was a “stupid cunt bitch....” like, who even says that? It came out of left field. This hasn’t been an ongoing problem so I have no clue where it came from.

-my stepdaughter is sick and our 6 month old stay with us full time, of course!... he wakes up and says “what are we going to do about Nova (6month old)? Implying that she should stay with my parents 40 miles away bc my stepdaughter who can be with her bio mom or his mom may be over. The reason this upset me is bc he favors my stepdaughter over ours constantly. He was acting like he didn’t want our 6 month old to come home. I asked him via text what he meant by the statement after he went to work and he texted me “Shut up!”.

-my MIL live down the street from my job and some days she watches the girls while we are working. I went over to have dinner and we all were talking about medicinal marijuana (my FIL has diabetes). I used to be a huge stoner, so I was letting them know there are other ways to use it besides smoking (edibles...). My SO is so anti weed it’s fucking annoying. He says, “well if you smoke it then you become stupid.” 😳🙄🙄🙄 Like please... ALSO, he thinks people purposely lace weed with other shit. Like, he watches too much TV. We are adults and my dad can get it from Cali per NFL. so I told him that if we get it from a doctor, that won’t happen. He got pissed bc I dropped facts on him. Stormed away.

-we are home and my dad calls to ask him if her wants to go to a football game this weekend so I told him, “here, the phone is for you...” THREE times. He was clearly ignoring me like he was sleeping (which he wasn’t). So I nudged him to take the phone. He blows up, “DONT FUCKING HIT ME IN MY CHEST!” I was so confused. Wtf is going on? That just sent me off edge. I went and slept in our girls room bc I could be in the same room with him after that...

I could go on? But that’s just some of the things he has been trippin on. Like WTF IS GOING ON? I wouldn’t call him a bitch to his face but I could swear he’s on his period. It’s sooooo annoying!!

He wanted have sex when I got home from work like nothing happened & of course I’m not in the mood... I bought him a steak for dinner and after he was an asshole again bc I didn’t want to have sex, I didn’t cook dinner!!! Do it yourself!!! Went to get myself a salad...