My husband and I have been together 7 years, have a 4 year old and our first wedding anniversary is coming up the beginning of November. We have never celebrated an anniversary as neither of us can remember the date we first got together. (Never really bothered me not to celebrate.) At the moment my husband is working away and I've been feeling like I've slipped down his list of priorities. I asked him to organise our anniversary as it's always me that organise anything we do and I wanted to be romanced. Well my husband turned around and informed me that he didn't want to it and it's too much pressure for him. O....k. Yes I was hurt and told him but I also asked what I could do to help. An I wrong for being hurt and wanting to be surprised and loved? Should I just organise it and swallow my hurt? I've tried talking to him about it and he just gets anger and I end up in tears. He's home tomorrow after working away for 11 days and I don't want this to ruin the time we have together.