So my ex bf well current to ex. Anyways he was raped supposedly he says. I was raped 2times once by his dad and by some other huy. So he has a lot of prom always mostly raped and forced related. I told him I used to like it rough but after 2nd raped I hate it. I tell him no and he keeps going every time. I don't mind it but I'm completely tired of it. I'm disgusted with him. He is controlling throughout every day and came to the conclusion it's because he was raped that he is like that . Does that mean he is traumatized.?? Also I noticed he has been getting into transsexual porn as well. I feel it's a control issue he has