relationship advice

lately me and my boyfriend have been fighting constantly and we can barely go one day now without arguing with each other. We’ve only been together nine months and the first four months were smooth and easy going. Lately I just don’t know how I really feel about our relationship anymore. There are times where I feel that we would be better off without each other, but then there are times where I couldn’t think about not being with him. It’s just hard because I reached out to him a couple days ago trying to resolve the issues and start fresh. But last night we got into another argument and I feel that I’m the only one that has been trying to change their ways. I know he loves me and I do love him but I really just want to know if every relationship goes through things like this. I understand relationships are not perfect but it’s gotten to the point now where I don’t even know if we’re good for each other anymore. I would deeply appreciate advice from you guys because I don’t have any family to ask for advice and although I do have my best friend, sometimes I want to hear other people‘s point of views. thank you.