Weird Hair

Hope • fellow human with vagina

Because of my generic backround, I ended up with pale skin, and red hair. However, the texture of my hair confuses people. Both my parents are mixed, my mom has Jewish on her side. My dad has African American. My hair is like a mix of that. I'm 18, and I am having the hardest time getting hairdressers and generally other people to understand why my hair is like this. I need help understanding how to treat my hair, and what products to us! Can you help me?