Advice catching boyfriend on dating apps?
Hello ladies. I’m in much need for some advice, as I’m stuck in bit of a rut here.
I’ve been dating this guy I met on Tinder for about 6 months. I thought we really had a strong connection, as we share a lot of personality traits, views, and interests.
We both recently got out of LTR’s and decided to go with the flow.
We really enjoy being together, such as playing card games, movies, cooking, day trips...we became officially exclusive in July and became Facebook official earlier this week.
However, I’ve always had a nag in my stomach about him cheating. My last relationship of three years ended because I caught him making an appointment with a prostitute at a brothel (I live in Nevada).
I openly explained to my current boyfriend quite a few times about my experience and I asked him to be honest with me because I don’t want to go through the heartache again. I also offered my willingness to be in an open relationship.
He responded greatly and supportive, letting me know he understood, promised to never hurt me, and that I’m the only girl he wants to see. Oh, and didn’t want to see anyone else but me.
But over the past few weeks, things just didn’t feel right. Our sex routine also decreased, big time.
He has bad teeth and recently went through surgery, so I figured that could be why.
I helped him find a dentist, let him sleepover, and took care of him for 3 days straight...that’s when he brought up we should be FB official.
I checked his phone once before and he had deleted dating apps a month prior, but I couldn’t help to check again.
This time, I found him on not only Tinder, but also InMessage, Kik, POF, Meet Me, Woo Plus...sigh.
And yes, sexting numerous women, including a 55 year old woman on Tinder.
I’m pretty appalled and heartbroken, especially since he’s lied to my face so many times, led me on, as well as telling him what I went though in my last relationship and expressing my requests.
He’s devastated and said he only wants me, loves me, hates himself, blah blah blah... and was feeling insecure about commitment.
I just don’t know what to do 😞💔 I like him a lot and he’s already changed his profile pic to us, his friends are requesting to add me, etc...
My self esteem is shot, and I feel like I’m not good in bed since he said his spark died for me a little.
This is all a day before I snooped.
Should I give him another chance? Or just be FWB? What do you think?
Thank you so much for taking the time to read!i!!
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