How to deal with stress from your spouse


So I'm still only a year into marriage so I could use advice. My husband has been so stressed the past few weeks. (Not the worst I've seen but definitely up there.) He's supposed to graduate this December but he found out it may not happen. On top of this there has been some personal stuff he has going on with friends. I've been trying to be supportive and listen, but it's really starting to affect me and I feel stressed out too. I hate telling him that because I don't want him to feel like he can't be real around me, you know? It just feels like a constant lump in my chest. Does anyone have advice when your spouses stress starts to make you stressed?