To test or not to test?

TTC #1 with my husband - I'm 28.

I originally thought I ovulated on the 19th (ovulation type pains - not tracking ovulation), but I have had no period since then, and a BFN a few days ago. Looking at symptoms (which I do track), I could have also ovulated around the 25th. Currently, period is 2 days late, but other apps expecting it to come later (9th) due to some spotting I had mid cycle... Last period started Sept 7th. Basically just looking for opinions on whether I should test or not since the BFN is so disheartening to see.

Would you wait to see if AF shows for a few days or test if you were me?