I know I have the right to say no but they make me feel like the devil when I do. Our daughter is 19 days old and in those 19 days my in laws have been here totally probably a week. Obviously it's been spread out but they are always coming over. They don't just come over, see her, and leave either. They stay for at least 2 hrs and it's always in the evening. I told my husband I didn't want them coming over when they had asked the other day. We're in the middle of dinner, she's about to get the boob, and there's a knock on the door...guess freaking who. She ate, was cranky, and ate again because she's going through a growth spurt so they didn't even get to hold her. Then I get a text from my SIL today asking if she can come over. We are literally driving to my in laws house on Sunday. That's in 2 days. My own mother went 9 days without seeing my daughter, why do my husbands parents think they need to see her constantly?