Hey ladies, I'm not sure if this is a phase or not after bad breakups since I've only had one relationship, I'm 28 (7 yrs, 4 yrs living together only to find out he, 31yo, cheated with a 40yo who rubbed it in my face then got married to her less than 5mos after I kicked him out, see my previous post; he was all forms of abusive). Anyways, I still feel pain, anger, hurt and fluctuate to missing him then hating him. Now there's been a new emotion I finally have acknowledged... I hate myself. From the way I look to who I am... Everything. I'm about to graduate with a Master's in engineering management, have a great job in a lab, rent a house, got my car... And yet I can't stand myself. I feel stupid, and ugly,and worthless. I'm not depressed but I'm not sure if this is a normal phase that occurs after a bad breakup. It's been a little over a year now since I kicked him out... And I'm now feeling this new emotion. Any advice or ideas would be great. Thanks in advance everyone!