Does anyone have any advice for TTC when you have a husband with a low sex drive? Even when not TTC, it bothers me. I have a much higher sex drive than my husband. He doesn't feel that there is an issue, and we have never had an issue once we get started, but getting him started is the problem. I ask him and get excuses or am just totally shot down. It starts to hurt after a while...i would be happy with every other day. He is happy with once, maybe twice, per month.