If your boyfriend has more girl friends than guy friends, should I be jealous?

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So I've been dating this guy for a while now and he constantly insists I go through his phone to establish the fact that I can trust him. I refuse to go through his phone bc I'm terrified I'll find something I don't wanna find. Yet I trust him with my life. He just Snapchats and messages girls a lot but posts about me and talks about me all the time so idk should I be jealous of these girls or not

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Honestly, if a lot of girls are friends with him it's probably because he's trustworthy and respects him. I would be more worried about a guy who only have guy friends. Those are the guys who (in my experience) tend to be the biggest misogynists.

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I think you’re being dramatic. If he had these friends before you then you don’t really get a say. Unless you specifically see something going on then calm down. He posts about you so obviously people know you’re his girlfriend. He has told you to go through his phone so obviously he’s not hiding anything. Your insecurities are gonna screw you over.

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Personally I would be worried because just because they are friends doesn't mean she won't try anything.  Or something might lead to something else.  At the same time if you trust him then that's great! I just don't trust females.   I have heard so many guys use the excuse" oh she has a boyfriend"  women cheat too. I fee personally if a guy cheats he will cheat with a close friend or someone he already knows.  I don't want to scare you AT ALL.  Just if you trust him and believe he wont do anything, that's great.  Just keep your eyes open for other people.   Like I said he might be a great guy and would never do that.  Just think about all the possibilities. If it does happen take precautions next time.  If it doesn't happen hold on to that man like your life depended on it.  ❤️ good luck sweetheart.   I hope everything goes good for you

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Id be more concerned that he needs to "prove" he's trustworthy.... people who are trustworthy don't feel a need to say and show they are trustworthy by doing anything more than just being themselves.

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The thing I worry about is when your bf hangs out with one guy everyday and he's not hanging out with you now that's suspect as hell

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My mother has been married for 20 years and she doesn't allow my stepfather to have women friends and neither do I allow my fiancé to have female friends. I don't see the point. A heterosexual man and woman can not simply be friends without having some type of attraction to the woman. I'm not sure how long you all have been dating, and I'm not one for giving ultimatums, but if him having female friends make you feel uncomfortable then try talking to him about it. See if things improve. If not, then it's probably best you ask yourself if you can tolerate it.

If your boyfriend has more girl friends than guy friends, should I be jealous?

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