How would you feel if your man went soft on you while having sex?!

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That is one of the most awkward and embarrassing thing ever , but it happened to me last night. We haven’t had sex in like a week because of my period ... so last night was the night that I wanted to do it. He told me the reason why that happened was him not having sex for a while.. can that be true?

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I wouldn't be embarrassed. Sometimes those things happen. It doesn't at all mean that he wasn't turned on or anything. I'm not sure if it can happen due to not having sex lately, but something like stress or anxiety can affect them in that way. Don't take it personally!

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It could also mean that he wasn’t into it at the moment.

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It happens. My bf has had it happen a few time but I've never made a fuss or made him feel bad about it or anything.

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no. he either has a psychological or physical issue

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It happens. It use dot happen a lot when my husband smoked. Restricted blood flow. If it happens now we move on to oral or keep trying if it doesn’t happen oh well it’s not the end of the world

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Just sounds like he wasnt into it or his mind was somewhere else. Happened to me before trying to help my boyfriend feel better after a long day but he starts stressing about things at work and with family that he starts to get soft Ya know.

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Think about it this way- just because it happened once doesn’t mean he isn’t into you anymore. I’ve started to not feel it part way through sex with my bf before even though I’m very attracted to him, it’s just easier to hide because I’m a girl!

How would you feel if your man went soft on you while having sex?!

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