My boyfriend and I have a 3 month old daughter. I'm staying at home with her while he works. He really does love her but When he holds her he says he gets ancy when she cries, and I swear when I'm home with him too he doesn't hold her for more than 10 min at a time. I Usually go to the gym for an hour or 2 a day, he asks me to get her to sleep first, which takes a long time and if she wakes back up while I'm getting ready he acts like I need her to get her to sleep again before I can leave. And when I come back I hear about how exhausting it was if she cried while I was gone. What do I do? I feel like I'm asking him to babysit OUR child. I get that he works and I don't, but I feel like when he's home i should have a little more help, and it shouldn't be my job to have to get her to sleep before he watches her (while I do anything: shower, sleep, go to the gym)