Finding out you have herpes

So I usually people get really depressed and sad when they find out they have herpes. I found out I have herpes today and although deep inside I feel really devastes I refuse to let it stop me from doing what I want. I'm still going on with my day today, and I'm about to head to the gym like I planned this morning. I'm still going to be the best mom I can to my 10 month old. And the best fiancé I can be as well.... my life isn't going to pause and I refuse to get depressed over this shit.