Soooo I'm looking at what I'll need after baby comes and it's come to my attention that I'll need pads for myself. So my question is wtf do I use. I want something absorbent and safe like non toxic and non cented. And i see like the stright up like pads that are like underwear and I'm really not aposed to using those if they are comfortable! I just want whatever works best and FEELS best I hate pads so I have almost no experience with them at all. So I'm feeling pretty worried about how this will go. Also how long do you need them does anyone really know?