Anyone else have a husband who can't control his anger? Newly married and worried if it will get worse. When things are super heated he will say things like "you're stupid" and "I hate you but when we make up. He says sorry and says he doesn't mean it. It still feels damaging to me though. It is to the point that when we make up, and he's all lovey...i just want to roll my eyes when he says he loves me.