My husband and I have been Married for 7 months, together almost a year. I’m 15 weeks pregnant. It’s been my experience that every guy has a “thing” that turns them on. Like lingerie or talking dirty.

I have asked my hubby a billion times what he’s into and all he does is shrug his shoulders! He said he can take or leave lingerie. I’ve sent him pictures/ dirty texts- I get no response or he’ll change the subject like he’s bored!. I’ve dressed sexy- nothing. I’ve mentioned involving toys but he shut that down real quick!

I just don’t get it! Nothing I do or say is a trigger for him. We have sex often but even that is feeling like a routine. I can’t orgasm during sex so he either gets me off before or after. And even that is the same thing. He licks my nipples while I play. Then he goes from missionary, to spoon, to doggy and then it’s done.

When I try to talk to him about it he says he’s a simple guy and doesn’t need anything. He thinks talking and communicating is more important than having sex. 🙄 I feel like I married a girl! Meanwhile I’m worried because I’m only going to get bigger and sex is just going to get harder. Once the baby comes it’ll be fewer and far between. I’m afraid it’s all going down hill and he doesn’t understand why I’m concerned. What am I missing? How can someone not have something they are particularly turned on by??? Ughhhhh helppp!!!!