How to get through a breakup??

Question

Need some advice I'm beginning to believe relationships are not for me. It's also a mutual feeling on the other end.. I need some tips advice etc please ladies.

Answer

focus on yourself. breakups allow people to focus on theirselves. get your hair cut, or colored, go to college, get a new job, go to the gym and excersise. don't focus on having a relafionship. the right man will come without looking for him. love yourself before you find others to love.💙❤

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Coming from a guy alot of people would not expect this but KNOW YOUR WORTH. The amount of times i spent trying to change myself to fit someone elses wants is NOT what anyone should be doing. I tried to change myself alot for the girls that i was dating at the time and the all did me wrong by either cheating on me, leading me on, lying to me, or a combination of all three. I dated this one girl for about 2 years, at the time i thought i found my angel, i felt like she was the love of my life and i couldnt live without her. Everything was perfect, and one night she went to a party and cheated on me, i was planning to go suprise her and see her after i got off work, but right as i got off she texted me ( NOT CALLED..texted ) saying that the at the party she went to everyone was drinking, and that this guy kissed her, and she let it happen because she likes him. I felt my world crumble. I had just boight her flowers and a stuffed panda and i was on the bus on my way to her house ( she lives in a different city and i didnt drive at the time ) i get off halfway to her house which was the next bus stop and i walked 2 hours home. Crying my eyes out i make it home. I’ve never experienced heartbreak so hard in my life before. I felt like killing myself just so i wouldnt have to deal with the pain of seeing her everywhere i went, seeing all the memories of us together, all the places we went to together, we lost our virginity to eachother, we were our firsts for everything, and she threw it all away in one night it was like nothing we went through mattered. It took me about 6 months to get over it. Its been three years and shes been with the guy she cheated on me with since she cheated on me with him. Things i did to try and help get over that pain and depression was art : drawing, graphic design, making and recording music, animating, photography, cinematography, and definately wroting poetry about the pain i felt and looking back at everything. Im in a new relationship now and eveey here and there i think about how shes doing and what shes been up to and i know i shouldnt but you cant ever forget your first love..or maybe you can and i just havent figured out how to yet..but long story short try taking up some hobbies to kill time like drawing, maybe do some arts and craftsy type of things, redecorate your room, play sole videogames, or even on here try and just find some cool ass motherfuckers to talk to. Alot of females on this app are waayyy more accepting than they could be in real life so making friends with females seems to be easier. I would much rather be friends with girls mainly because i would understand girls more cause i would get a better perspective from girls point of view but i dont have any friends anymore. Damn im all in my feels now and shit haha damn...

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probably because you’ve been dating the wrong guys. bullshit guys just make you feel like shit. you deserve a good guy and than you’ll realize why it never worked with anyone else (that sound cheesy as hell but it’s true lmao)

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