Should I test?!?!

Ladies I am at a crossroads and I don't know which to do. My cycles lately are anywhere between 28 and 33 days. Due to this my AF can come anywhere between the 7th to the 11th. It usually comes the 8th or 9th. Well today is the 10th and no sign of her yet. We have fingers crossed she doesn't come. So now I don't know if I should test or wait to test until Thursday or Saturday if she doesn't come to test. Up until last month and this month she was always very good at telling me she is coming but last month she told me the day of and this month I have had zero signs of her coming. I had cramping Monday but went away without her coming. I just don't know what you do!