side chick? or nah

so me and my boyfriend are long distance (700 miles) i’m 18, in college and he’s 17, a senior, and going to basic training this summer. We’ve been dating for 3 years and best friends for 6.

i recently went to visit him and this girl snapchatted him (i understand he has lots of friends and a few who are girls and i dont mind unless he acts sneaky) this girl said and he showed me the message “what? your gf comes to town and you suddenly start ignoring me?” and he said “well yeah. i’m kinda busy” and then posted a pic of me on his story saying “if i haven’t answered you lately, she’s why 😚”

and i asked if i could have his phone to go off on the bitch and he said no, so whatever i just sent a selfie of me rolling my eyes to her and she flipped me off and him and i flipped her off back.

so about a week later and i’m back in kansas and i see her insta so i follow it. 🤷🏼‍♀️ she messages him and says “why did your gf follow me” the convo went like this

on the last messages its talking about a rough patch we had, we weren’t getting along, and we both hurt each other.

i’m just upset because i will wanna say something to this bitch. 🙄 and he won’t let me