Virgin! First time sex advice!

Im a 22 years old virgin, im in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 7 years now but we never had sex cause we both thought we should wait until marriage. Don't get me wrong we did make out and stuff and he has seen me naked and touched me intimately just never fucked me lol😅 my question to you guys is how do i ask him to have sex with me cause i really want to now and don't really want to wait much longer since there is a few more years left for us to get married. Also my boyfriend has quite alot of times asked me for anal but I wasn't really sure, but now i think i might enjoy it. Should we try anal and leave the vanilla for later? Any guidelines for the anal thingy? Thankyou guys for listening💙