Which month seems more proper for a baby shower?

I am due January 25th and am expecting a big baby (his father was 24 inches long and 10lbs, now 6’6 275lbs. While I am 5’2) I guess because of that I am anticipating that he’ll be early and I should have an early shower. But with the holidays coming I feel like it’s making it more difficult to come to a decision. Idk what to do, what do most mommas do? Please no rude comments, we are about to move and stressed about money and we planned on the shower being next month, I totally spaced it until now and I’m a stressed momma with the holidays - baby #1! 💘 Thanks y’all.