To the ladies that think it’s ok to...

...say just deal with it.

Some people are dealing with a lot emotionally and physically having a new baby.

Please stop telling others to Woman up.

I had someone tell me that I’m complaining about my baby because I said I was struggling with my new life??? I’m FTM too with PPD with chronic depression for years and suffering from anxiety. I’m taking meds for it. So I knew I had to take care of myself to take care of my baby.

You don’t know what every new mom or woman is going through. Not everything that works for you works for someone else. Everyone is different and every situation is different. Every baby is different.

So if someone is having a hard time and wants to cry, or needs someone to hear, just to rant, needs some helpful words, don’t tell them to just deal with it.