What's going on????

I am currently 10 DPO! Since 1 DPO I have had cramps practically every day, feeling sickly and very tired, and nauseous especially the last three days! Now here's what gets me... I am very sexually active, very high sex drive! Since 1 DPO I have not had any type of sexual appetite!!! Last night the hubby wanted to get a little fresh and after we started it hurt! Not an inside hard, but an outer friction kind of hurt 😥 So I went to the bthrm and checked myself (wondering why this was happening) and... TMI.... my vajayjay looked almost purple and had what looked like a swollen fluid pocket on my inner labia!!! (Never had this before... ever!!!) Well, today it's gone 🤷🏼‍♀️ I felt like I was coming down with a yeast infection 4 days ago but no itching or yeasty discharge! My cm went from creamy to yesterday being watery with some white spots!! Usually I'm dry and my cp is low and hard at this point!! My cervix has never dropped since O.... has been medium high and squishy soft since I Oed!!! AF is due to make her unwanted presence on the 15th..... any of you ladies ever had this or anything similar???