Hmm🤔
So, on October 22nd, my SO is planning to propose to me. Via scavenger hunt. Definitely creative, cute and fun. He has no idea that I know, he's been so excited and wanting to tell someone that he accidentally left me too many hints, including accidentally adding me in a group chat between him and everyone involved. Thankfully, he booted me out before he left too much info leak out and I didn't open the messenger and was able to play it off like I didn't see any of the messages. Anywhooooo. Am I wrong to be a little upset that his mom picked out the engagement ring? I already know what the ring looks like because we had to have it resized and I had to try it on when the store got it back in. In the chat, before I got removed, that's what they were talking about and it seems like she was making sure everyone knew she picked the ring out. To me, that makes it seem like he either didn't want to do it himself or truly doesn't know what I like, despite me showing him several examples of rings I like. He had been asking for a while now what kind of rings I liked and asked me to send pictures, so I did. She even made the comment in the chat chat she deserves to pick out our bands😔 Am I in the wrong for being upset a little that he didn't pick the ring himself? Asking his mom to help him would've been different, but he openly told me that he forwarded the pics to her and left her pick the ring for him...his mom and I aren't even close, so it isn't that she knows me more. I love him to No end, and am certain to say yes, it just kind of irks me🤔
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