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Do you ever just look at your SO and think they’re ugly and why you’re with them ?
It doesn’t happen often but I do get those thoughts just curious if it was normal or if I’m just not that into him. We’ve been together for almost 4 years now since we were 16. Sometimes I just want to do my own thing and not be in a relationship but he doesn’t understand that, he thinks I just want to meet a bunch of new guys to have sex with 🙄🙄🙄

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With the two guys I dated before my husband, I did think that. Try as I might, I just wasn't attracted to them. But I tried to force it because I thought I liked their personalities and I had never had been sexually attracted to anyone before, so I didn't totally understand what I was missing. But sometimes I would just look at them and think, "Eh." Or even, "Ugh. 🤢" And sex was either boring or disgusting. 
But I have never once thought that about my husband. In fact, with him it is the exact opposite. I think he is the most adorable thing in this whole wide universe, and I am SO glad I didn't settle for less (not just in looks, but in every single aspect).

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Then why are you with him. Leave. Do both of you a favor.

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No. Seems like your relationship might not work out.

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um. break up 😂

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I thought that once. I'm not with him anymore

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Been with him a shorter time than you, but when with my boyfriend I can't help but think "damn, he's so frickin hot". And jump him. Yes, I do get annoyed by him sometimes after we spend almost every day together, but I never am not attracted to him because of this. Do yourself, and your current boyfriend a favor, BREAK UP. You're wasting your own time, dating someone you're no longer attracted to. Not only that but he deserves to get over the heartache now rather than later. If you have ever loved and respected him, you'd override his feelings about you leaving, and just leave for his sake and yours. You're both young and have many years to find different people to love. Good luck, hope all goes well for both of you.

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same tho, if you meet someone so early on and you stay together you feel like youre making a mistake, I want to live for a little before I'm tied down to him to make sure I really do love him

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I was in a 7 year relationship since I was 12 he was 15 years passed and he wasn't attractive to me anymore I am now in a new relationship a lot of people change some for the better some for the worse it's not your fault

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