“Burdened” 🙄🖕🏻
So my fiancé had been asleep until 1:00 pm. I have been awake off and on as I’m breastfeeding. He told me he couldn’t sleep because he was “burdened with helping”. I can’t ask him to do shit. He gets annoyed or he just doesn’t do a damn thing. I asked him to burp the baby as I had to pee badly. He took her and laid her down next to him, stuck a binky in her mouth, and then went back to sleep. Not only is that dangerous but it’s lazy as fuck. I don’t ask him to do much, and he doesn’t do much. He was super helpful in the hospital, and the first night home, but not anymore. He did the same thing this morning (the burping thing) and I asked if he could just burp her. His response was to ask if I could just fucking chill. No dipshit, I can’t, you promised the whole time I was pregnant what a big help you’d be and you’ve done jack shit. You complain about how tired you are and how annoying he baby’s fussing is while you’re trying to sleep. Go sleep outside then, I don’t care. You didn’t stir ONCE and now you’re telling me you were up every time she wanted to be fed? Please. You make me feel bad for being emotional when I just fucking had a baby. Go fuck yourself. I’ll relieve you of your “burden” and tell you you can sleep literally anywhere else but my bed. Since your brothers are more important than your week old baby, go hang out with them and don’t fucking come back. And take your ring with you. I’ve been doing this alone for basically a week now, my baby and I don’t need you for shit.
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