I hate when people say stop having babies by deadbeats. Or you know you chose him to be your child’s dad? Okay, did they start putting "deadbeat” in the background checks? Is it on the credit report? Did he have to sign a waiver for you to check his sex history? What most fail to realize is people do what they want. A man can have 12 kids and pick & choose which ones he want to do for when he want to do it. So checking his parenting history is pointless. Hell you can be (happily) married and your husband can wake up 1 day and be tired of you, the kids & the damn dog and just LEAVE!!