So I don’t even tell people that we’re trying when they ask...

My husband and I have been married for a year and actively trying to conceive that entire time. We both are super family oriented and planned on having kids as soon as we were married.

So now that we’ve been married this long, we keep getting badgered with the big question - “So when will you be having some babies?!”

If I knew the answer to that or if I could control it, I’d be so much happier! Instead, I just say that we’re not in a huge rush so whenever it happens will be great. It really hurts and upsets me that we haven’t been able to conceive, and now I feel like there’s this social code that we’re breaking and we’ve let down our families. Does anyone else just try to brush off when people ask if you’re trying? I don’t really want my inability to conceive become the topic of conversation.