Weight gain

Being 208 lbs when I had my first appt at 9 weeks I expected the "you shouldn't gain much" speech I knew my dr would be giving me however what I didn't expect was to be 13.5 weeks and I still only weigh 209!

My first thought when she started the "you should only gain 15-20 lbs" speech was yeah right that's never gonna happen. And obviously I'm aware you gain more later into the pregnancy but I'm super proud of myself for not using this as an excuse to stuff my face with crap all day long. My boss also had the audacity to ask me if I planned to just eat whatever I want or if I was gonna keep it in check 😐🙄😒 like it's any of his business. His face when I told him I'd only gained a pound was pure gold, he was shocked. When you're overweight people automatically assume you are unhealthy when in reality all my levels are good, I eat junk sometimes yes but it's more so from the lack of motivation to get my butt off the couch after a long day and move around, not what I eat. Jerk.

Also, normally I maintain 198-204 but had just gone on vacation and ate wayyy too much good food 😂😂.

Anyone else feel "weight shamed"?