Update: My s/o was deployed and I'm still leaving him!

Hello Ladies (& a few Gentlemen)! I really don't have a whole lot new going on. However, I would like to report that my S/O was recently deployed and now I have full freedom to get my plans in order. YES - I'm still leaving. My marriage is essentially over, at least in my head, so I don't feel bad or burdened by his deployment. And I am sure there will be MANY negative comments because I am separating from him while he's away so just know ahead of your opinion that I do not care. I have endured greatly as a woman of a cheating husband and a mother of 4 beautiful children. My story is not for the faint hearted. I am a warrior in my own right and deserve to be loved, cared for, treated with respect as I have always treated him - even while I knew he slept with other women. My life will go on. I have no reservations about leaving. My mind is made up... #2MoreMonthsLeft