Does your SO....

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Kiss you/hug you/talk to you when he/she gets home? I am asking because every night when my SO gets home he doesn’t kiss me,talk to me or ask how my day was even when he lays in bed at night he doesn’t hold me,kiss me or anything...... It makes me feel really sad 😞

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yup. every night . together 15 years. don't start thinking about horrible stuff. the most likely answer is that he's just a guy and he doesn't even think about it. he likely has no idea how big a deal this is to you. talk to him and make sure to give him time to change. He's not going to remember overnight

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Just tell him how you feel. He might not even realize that his lack of affection makes you sad. He might not even notice.

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Have you told him your feelings about this?

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Why don’t you ask him? Pour him a drink and sit down together for five minutes.

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so I clicked yes because my SO is super lovey. he always wants hugs and kisses. but if you were to ask him he would say no. I'm not lovey dovey all the time I'll go through spurts. and it's not cause I dont love him or anything like that. were going on 5 years together 4 of them married. just sometimes I like my personal space. everybody is different.

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I usually get a kiss when I gets home. Then he either like to chill n watch t.v. or play a video game to unwind after work. sometimes we chat a little during this time. then we watch tv together before bed n just chill/relax. We usually don't talk much right before bed, more just enjoying the others company.

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I am so sorry, I know how you feel. Mine will ask about my day only if I ask about his, and rarely kisses or hugs me when he gets home. :(

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My SO is not big into displays of affection, but whenever he gets home from work I definitely jump on him and hug him/kiss him/ask how his day was. Some days he's more receptive than others, but he always respects that I'm excited to see him, and while he doesn't really show it I think he appreciates it.

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My husband doesn't do shit when he gets home. He says hey to the dogs and our daughter and then I get a "what's up". 🙄

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