Hey so I’m a little new to this sex and masturbation thing and I was wondering what it felt like for us to get an orgasm... (I am 18 and just fresh into college) Many times my man has fingered me and he does an amazing job let me tell you! (So much better than my ex ever did) but sometimes it feels like I have to pee. I asked my friend about it and she said to just let it happen because it’s just you squirting and it’s totally fine, but I’m too scared to do that just Incase it isn’t that ya know?

For masturbation I have tried the come here technique that everyone talks about and I’ve tired to rub my clit and just nothing seems to work. Am I not feeling it or am I not in the right mood? How do you know when you orgasm?

And also a little side question, my friend (the one from before) said that having sex with a condom hurts more than without. I was wondering if that was true cause we are using condoms at the moment because he doesn’t want me pregnant and I don’t want to be pregnant.