I have been overweight for quite a few years. I am roughly 210lb and 5'5" tall and I'm turning 26 in a month and a half and I've had baby fever for a long time. I have found myself so anxious these days because I want to start trying now but I'm concerned about me weight and getting pregnant. My husband and I have been married three years and we feel that we are at a pretty good spot financially. I was so excited about having a baby but now I have a lot of fear and worry. I'm worried my weight will cause complications. I feel like most of my body fat is in my stomach so most days if I relax my stomach then I already feel months pregnant...I want to be able to be at a healthy weight and feel good about myself. I don't really have good self esteem or confidence at all and that makes it difficult too. Anyone else going through something similar?