Spicing things up🔥

I'm ready to read everyone's advice!!!!

How can I spice things up with my man in the bedroom. 😩 I used to have a high sex drive, I'm talking about doing it 25/8 but now it's super low. I rarely feel like doing anything at all. He loves to please me and I enjoy it but then I feel bad because I don't have the same energy or the same drive as him. He says it's okay and he's not bothered by it because when the mood does come by, it goes down!

I'm very insecure about my body. It's just not how it used to be. I had my daughter and I got depressed and ate my way through it. I probably weigh like 190 lbs. and my belly makes me super insecure to the point of me not taking off my clothes in front of him And sex has to be in the dark or I won't feel comfortable 😔

I just want to make him feel special and know that he is loved and wanted.