So I asked my Fiancé if after we have our babies, would he be willing to get a vasectomy? We've never been good at using birth control and after two babies I don't want anymore! He looked at me in disbelief! It was like an absolute no! And I tried explaining to him that it's easier for him to have a vasectomy than for me to have my tubes tied to prevent another baby! Help me ladies! Pros and Cons of a vasectomy vs. pros and cons of getting tubes tied? Personnel stories? Help!