Do you think it’s bad when your SO works way too much?

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My so has been working waaaaay to much lately his the one who provides for us and i appreciated but literally it’s too much I say even on the weekends I don’t see him the only time where together is when we’re sleeping. 7days a week. We have a baby together. But idk I always say it’s important to have a balance for everything because sometimes that’s how marriages can tear apart that’s my opinion idk.

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When I was working two jobs and my husband worked one, I literally worked from 5 in the morning to 11 or 12 at night so we only saw each other on my days off and at night while we slept. It sucked and everything and I quit one job after a few months because it became too much.

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My bf works 2 jobs 6 days a week. It's 12 hours days and he only has off Sundays and those are his days to relax. I can only see him Friday night's and he's tired and wanting to sleep by the time he comes over by me. I hate that he works so much. And he won't quit his other job until we move in together which isn't for another 2 years.😩

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My Husband has been working 7 days a week for the past 2 months, and while the money is great and everything but we don't get much alone time together nor family time. My daughter and I miss him.

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I totally understand. When I worked in the field we never saw each other but now that I work for myself from the home, he works more and I never get to see him but. am thankful because I get one on one time with my son and I didn't get to see either before. I try not to nag him about it though because I know he's working hard, which allows me to continue building my business without worrying. Just try to schedule a date night, or make a certain night of the week so good for him that he won't want to miss it. 
example: make out Monday, wildin out Wednesday, freaky Friday. 
Wednesday is our day. I cook a great meal have the kid to bed early and we are having the time of our lives with the door locked on Wednesday. Some how he manages to make it home on time or early those days 🤔

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My husband right now is on 2nd shift. So he is gone from 1:30p to 10:30p . Most nights tho he is staying late until 1-2am. He's our main income, So I can't complain. it does suck. Especially since I'm a SAHM and pregnant. We never have time to ourselves it feels like. But in a way it has made us closer bc we value our time so much more. When he does get off at 10:30, I make sure our daughter is asleep and we usually watch TV and talk and just have time for ourselves. However I have told him he needs to change his shift to 1st. bc our daughter barely sees him and I'm 7 months pregnant and I am going to need him as much as possible when our baby is born. Especially since we already have a 1yr old. Open communication helps! talk to him and review options together.

Do you think it’s bad when your SO works way too much?

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