Fight after oral?

I was giving my fiancé head, while doing that he asked me to put my pussy in his face; I said no. And kept going, from then on he thought I was on my period. When he came he asked if I was, I said no. I didn't want to because I feel like my vagina doesn't taste good. Whenever he gets down there, there is minimal foreplay, and literally all he does is suck the clit. It gets boring and old, but I didn't say it like that. At first I said "I just don't feel like I taste good." Then he said he heard how feminine products are only supposed to be used down there not soap, and how it's just my pH balance. But people, I scrub my insides to the point it hurts just to try, and with this type of head, I can cum, but I want more than just straight to climax, I want to feel teased and desired every once and awhile. Not just "make me cum right quick" type shit over and over and over and over again. So I told him about how I just don't look forward to it anymore. I like foreplay I want to feel something. I didn't say anything wrong people, because with this, you gotta be careful not to step on their ego ya know? So I tried and he said "I'll take note of that." And scooted to the edge of the bed away from me. He said I ruined the mood. I wasn't trying to drag on why I didn't want him down there. I thought it would be a quick little conversation. But boy was I wrong. I just didn't feel comfy and then he said "I wanted you to put your pussy in my face for me! That wasn't for you!"

Bruh 😐 I'm just so confused.