a few years ago I slept with a man twice my age that i worked with, I met him at a ball, and he told me he was separated but got on really well with his wife, and was renting an apartment until he could buy somewhere. He came to mine a few times and we had sex, then suddenly one day changed his profile photo on whatsapp to a picture of his wife and their children. I was absolutely gobsmacked and heartbroken at what had happened. When i got pregnant couple of months after seeing him, he saw me at work and his face went white and he said 'it's nothing to do with me is it because that will ruin my marriage" I still feel guilty about it to this day even though I now am engaged and have a baby with my perfect man, I can't believe he used me and cheated on his FAMILY with me. it haunts me to this day. What an asshole. EDIT the baby wasn't his, I had a miscarriage a couple of years back before I met my fiance