chemical pregancy then lost at 14 weeks

in May I had a chemical pregancy. I was hear broken. We conceived again in June. everything was going great. baby sounded great. I went in for my 17 weeks check up and we couldn't find the heart beat. went in for an ultrasound and there was no hear beat. baby's heart beat stopped at 14 weeks. It's been hard. I had a d&c; on the 12th I'd this month. I'm still bleeding from it. this Thursday I go in to have my gallbladder removed. We still haven't gotten call or anything from the Dr who did the d&c.; We told the Dr, the nurse and even the anesthesiologist that we wanted the baby cremated. I will be very very upset if they just threw my baby out after telling them. The baby is at a there lab running tests on it to see what happened to him or her. I'm still heart broken after having two losses so close together and now going in two weeks after having my baby removed from my body I go back in to have my gallbladder removed. just not what I needed right now. everyone keeps asking me if my gallbladder could of caused me to loose the baby which isn't helping me at all. My 3 year old and 1 year old doesn't know what's going on but know I'm hurting and sad. I hope for a rainbow baby again soon and it makes it into my arms so it can go up with it's brother and sister.